Every day is a new beginning . . .

First name

Selinda

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I'm extremely romantic and looking for an eternal relationship with an eternal friend. I enjoy expressing love in many ways: hand-made cards, cuddles and kisses, surprises . . . like a picnic, sharing interests as well as sharing work, hidden love notes, etc., etc. However, I think the most important part of me is my deep faith in Jesus Christ and His Atonement. I want to share this faith and desire for the Atonement to have full sway in my life with someone who has the same desires. I am not perfect and I am not looking for perfection in someone else. I do not want to be put on a pedestal, nor do I want to put someone on a pedestal. I'm looking for someone, who will see me and who will allow me to see him. I like to learn new things and try new things. I enjoy traveling . . . will this pandemic ever end? The things I miss most during the pandemic are hugs and going to the temple. I like long, meaningful conversations about . . . anything. While I am very serious about my faith and fulfilling my mission in this life, I have also been known to be overcome by the giggles at a funny situation. I want what you want . . . a loving companion who will walk beside me, hand-in-hand, as equal partners.

Sign

Aries

My Body Type Is

Big And Beautiful

My Height Is

5' 9 (1.75 m)

My Eyes Are

Hazel

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Smile

Body Art

Wouldn't Even Think About It

My Hair Is

Grey

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Retired

My Speciality Is

Education / Academic

My Job Title Is

Language Arts Teacher

I Make This Much In A Year

$45,000USD To $59,999USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

No

Back In High School, I Was A

Brain

My Social Behavior Is

Observant, Friendly

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Religion / Spirituality, Family, Reading, Tv, Internet, Theater

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, The Movies, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Considering Covid-19 restrictions, I would like to meet somewhere where we could sit and quietly talk. Maybe in a mall where we could find a quiet corner to socially distance yet be able to talk. If there was no pandemic, going to a play, dinner after with quiet conversation would be nice.

I've Always Wanted To Try

Welding. I've always wanted to try to create metal art.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly

My Religion Is

LDS

I Attend Services

Once A Week

My Political Views Are

Conservative

My Goal In Life Is

My goal in life is to be the best me that I can be. Of course, I would prefer to work on that goal with an eternal companion by my side to help, support, and cheer me on . . . while I do the same for him. However, whether alone or with a spouse, I strive to overcome my faults and mistakes . . . always with my eyes on the Savior, because I know I can't perfect myself. I believe it is not the mistakes we make that determine whether we fail or succeed in life, but, rather, it is the choices we make AFTER making mistakes that make the difference. I seek the Lord's help to understand why I make mistakes so I do not make them again. You've probably heard this: The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. I realized, years ago, that if I want different results, I must do something different. So when I find myself getting frustrated over something that is not falling into place or working out, for whatever reason, I tell myself to stop, take a step back, and consider what else I can do because this, whatever this is, is not working. Because of this, I can honestly say that I am not the same person I was when I was twenty-something and made some mistakes; I am not the person I was 15 years ago; I am not the person I was eight years ago when I moved to Ogden; and I am not the person I was one year ago when the pandemic began. I'm not perfect, but thanks to my Father in Heaven, I am a better version of myself, and I hope to be a better version next year than I am now.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Slapstick

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Re-runs

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country

When I Read, I Always Read

Fiction, Romance

My Idea Of Fun Is

Attending a live performance of a play with someone I know will enjoy it with me and love discussing it with me afterward.

I also like family activities.

I enjoy just about anything . . . when with the right person.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Flirtatiousness, Spontaneity, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

Like you, I'm looking for someone to share my life with . . . my ups, my downs, and all my in betweens; and I want to share the same with that someone special. Of course, I want to develop a friendship first . . . I want to know I can trust this person, I can confide in this person, and I can depend on this person without fear of being betrayed or being judged or being abandoned. Outward appearance is not what attracts me; what attracts me is what's in a person's heart and mind. Does the person truly listen to me and hear what I'm saying with my heart? Does the person truly see me and understand who I am?

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Committed